Attune
For parents of tweens & teens

Understand what really happened —and what to gently try next.

Record a conversation with your tween or teen. We'll show you the moments that mattered, the patterns underneath them, and one warm thing to try — grounded in what was actually said.

See how it works

Your recordings stay private. Nothing is sold or used to train models.

What you'll get

Three questions, answered.

Not a wall of numbers and not generic advice. A clear read on the conversation you actually had.

01

What happened?

The observable moments — escalation, repair, a sudden withdrawal — pulled straight from the transcript, with the exact lines that show it.

02

Why it might matter

The pattern underneath the moment, and a gentle hypothesis about what your tween or teen could be feeling beneath the words.

03

What to try next

One evidence-based technique matched to what we noticed — never something we could have suggested without listening first.

A summary worth reading back. Not a list of what was said — a look at what you might have missed.

How it works

Three quiet steps.

From a voice memo to something you can actually use — usually in under a minute.

1

Record & upload

Capture a real conversation on your phone and drop the audio in. We handle m4a, mp3, wav and more.

2

See what we noticed

Speaker-separated transcript, speaking balance, and detected moments — each tied to the exact lines.

3

Get one thing to try

A warm, grounded read of the dynamic, plus a specific technique matched to your conversation.

What it notices

The things easy to miss in the moment.

Patterns, hard moments, and the strengths worth holding onto — all detected from the conversation itself.

Escalation cycles
Invalidation
Character judgments
Mind-reading & motive
Withdrawal & shutdown
Contempt & threats
Repair attempts
Validation & curiosity
Accountability moments
Interruptions
Speaking dominance
De-escalation
What we believe

Observation first. Always.

The approach matters as much as the output. These are the rules we hold ourselves to.

You see what happened before what it means

Raw metrics and detected moments come first. Interpretation is clearly separated from observation — you're never handed a conclusion without the evidence.

Every insight points back to a real moment

Each observation links to exact quotes, timestamps, and turns. Nothing is invented; everything traces to the conversation you had.

No advice we could give without listening

Suggestions come from a structured library of evidence-based techniques, matched to what was actually detected — never generic parenting tips.

This is personal. We treat it that way.

Your recordings are used to produce your analysis and nothing else — never sold, never used to train models. You can delete any conversation anytime.

The goal is the two of you, actually talking.

Attune just helps you understand the last conversation, so the next one goes a little better.